RedRum wrote:N. Needleman wrote:RedRum wrote:Do you deny that Season three alters the tone and meaning of seasons one and two??
I answered this question several messages ago.
No you didn't....
Yeah, I did.
Let me ask you this... What kind of person would spend an inordinate amount of time on a thread that is directly opposed their views?
I'm glad you asked. I've been waiting for this question.
Like others have mentioned, I initially came to this thread at its inception out of curiosity and sympathy to try to hear critical takes that might be nuanced or different from the more pervasive positive POV. I thought it might be worth a thoughtful conversation. But as I found page after page of really personal, nasty attacks on first Lynch and Frost start to develop, then the crew and cast, then more and more often a lot of insults about the rest of us on the forum - I went from trying to be the bigger person or asking politely for it to lessen, to lately just being really disillusioned.
I kept hoping it would change, because we had posters who kept asking some of the rest of us (me included) to stay, saying they really wanted to talk about the show, wanted other opinions, wanted this earnest give and take in conversation, just like in these last 20 or so pages - but they still can't seem to stop implying that we're all clueless or lying to ourselves, like it's some sort of reflexive, angry instinct. And when they're called on it suddenly it's not a discussion anymore, it's a venting zone again and won't we please respect that.
Well, sorry, that doesn't work when you're an adult. You can't say you really want to talk to people about it and then still insult them in the next post (or breath). Pick one, or just admit you simply expect us to be at your disposal for however you want to behave. Which is not fair and not honest with either side. And frankly, it's a little late after 160+ pages to keep saying (for like the ninth or tenth time) that you have a lot of raw feelings and we should all be aware you or someone else might not be able to control your behavior towards the rest of us.
That's what galls me most of all - the insistence on being understood and respected coupled with the apparent disinterest in consistently respecting the rest of us. This show is just as dear and important and passionate a subject for us as it is for you. Your anguish is not uniquely privileged. You having a deep wealth of feeling for it is not a free pass to play gatekeeper for whether we're true fans, or just call us a slew of names while you try to process your feelings about a television show.